Cliff,
It does seem that you should get the same reading on the opposite wing, all other things being the same. My only concen is that the static is on your other pitot. Is there any chance that your static isn't very static? Have you verified that your altitude is correct and doesn't change with airspeed? Seems unlikley, but possible.
Just grasping at straws, but the only thing IAS uses is pitot pressure over static pressure, so there are only two things that can effect that reading. You could plumb the Dynon pitot into your other IAS gauge and see if it reads low against the GPS like the EFIS is.
Also, is the Dynon pitot is the same distance from the wing and the same point along the chord as the other pitot? This can make a real difference.
Finally, using the AOA port on the Dynon and the IAS on the other pitot should work, assuming you are going straight. In a tight turn, one wing is going faster than the other, and thus the readings will be false. To be accurate in all flight attitudes, you really should keep the two ports close to one another. I think you really should try and figure out the Dynon IAS pitot problem instead of trying to sidestep it.