tldr; Solved? New probes all around, all reading much hotter than the old ones. My new "normal".
I replaced all connectors with OLC-2. No change. Talked to Dynon support. They didn't have an explanation. On their advice I tried 2 more new sensors in the same (left) side with similar results. Then I put new sensor in the right side as well. Right side then read warmer, but still much cooler than left. I swapped left-right connections to check/eliminate wiring & EMS issues. Eventually I put the cowl back on, and went for a flight. Right side temps came up considerably, to mostly match the left. Cowl air flow differences? Both are reporting a lot warmer than the old ones, well into the Vans-spec'd warning range at sea-level & mid-throttle. At least they agree. The engine didn't just change over night, so I've adjusted my sense of "normal". I called Vans to see if there are new/updated EMS warning temp ranges since 4 years ago. They didn't know, and said "download the newest file and compare". Really? :\ I did. It hasn't changed. Then I talked to Rotech (real Rotax people), and they said "1540F" is pretty normal on a runup, and that I should adjust my warning range on the EMS. FYI, that's 70F hotter than Van's stock setup warning level, and much hotter than anything I've ever witnessed in any scenario. I don't trust any EGT value at this point. It's only good for relative minute to minute comparisons. They reiterated the Rotax book spec red limit of 1616F. I bumped my warning range up to 1530F. Gonna be a long time before I feel comfortable again.