The tool that Dynon ships is green, and it is for standard density pins. It doesn't last for as long as the red and white metal version, and is particularly not good at withstanding any mishandling. I've botched up one or two, but fortunately several of my Dynon components each came with one. I also have owned a few of the metal versions, in which the standard pins are used with the red tool and the HD pins are used with the green tool. Those hold up better and are worth the few dollars they cost.
While not helpful to us builders, it is true that regardless of whether there are any industry conventions about the color of the tool and the size of the pins, the Dynon standard density tool is green and white.
But having said all of that, those tools are intended to remove the pin from a hole of the correct gender. I've not actually tried removing the reverse gender with the tool. Hopefully it will work! If all else fails, you can chop off the wires and start fresh, and you're only out $5 in materials.